Sexism At Work

Today, when women are competing and moving ahead in every field, they obviously have to get out of their homes and search for work. Now the question that comes into one’s mind is that..can there be an ideal workplace for women? And if not, then shouldn’t women work and be independent? Are they meant to be enslaved by or depend on men forever? Despite being strong and willing, women are having a hard time in today’s society. As soon as they get out of their homes they are halted by the fear of molestation. From one door to the other, from home to their workplace, they still have the same fear. Before choosing to work outside, they first need to prepare themselves for the consequences they might face. They need to prepare themselves for the authority that might harm her or the pressure they might face or the scrutinizing gazes that might pierce her soul. And this has become a routine behavior for women going out of their homes for the first time.

 Here is a story of Rati, 26 who lives in Jharkhand and works as an employee in a mobile company. Recalling her older job, she feels disgusted. Being the only earning member of her family, she had to work in any circumstances. During the first day of her work, she was nervous yet excited. She was warmly welcomed by her colleagues and seniors. She felt overwhelmed. But the special attention and extra care by one of her seniors worried her. Her ignorance started leading to giving more access to her body. It then went by with touching unwanted areas of her body. She felt embarrassed and suppressed. She knew raising her voice would prove to be of no use to her as she was new and going to the police would mean no income and even more problems for her family. So she chose to leave the job. 

Every second girl facing sexual abuse at workplace is unable to raise her voice or get justice. They simply keep switching jobs, either because of the fear of their family being harmed or because they learn that some part of the society cannot be changed. They have to hide their arms, their bellies, their cleavage and their thoughts. They are bullied, teased, molested and what not. The assaults to their bodies and to their souls need to stop. Being a woman is the biggest gift of life. Why waste it by being ruled by someone else. We women own our bodies and it’s we who have the right to decide what to hide And what to flaunt, where to work and where not to, to work until what time, to not work at all. And if anybody questions us on this, we need to raise our voices because nobody can snatch away our rights in the society. We are women. We are fierce tigresses not afraid of anything who just need to know our worth and strength and fight against molestation at workplace or anywhere else.